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u/luri7555 3h ago

Make out sesh with a mouth full of lunch.

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u/Romanista3 3h ago

I also kiss my wife before she swallows

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u/Grace_Lannister 1h ago

real men always do

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u/SaltyLonghorn 33m ago

It was just polite to wait for my wife and her bf to finish what they were doing.

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u/lampsslater77 4h ago

If my wife were on a girls trip in another country and I showed up she'd prob be like ugh wtf are you doing here šŸ˜‚

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u/ahorseinasuit 4h ago

Happily married for 25 years and I think my wife would WTF the bajesus out of me if I showed up unannounced on a girls trip. Part of me thinks we’re happily married because I wouldn’t do anything like this.

Of course to be fair to these gorgeous hothouse web-dwelling folks they’re all super young and the dynamic is very different in the early days of ā€œcourtinā€. Keeping romance alive in my marriage these days is surprising her with three loads of folded laundry, the kids lunches packed and a foot rub.

Now I want to do a video of older couples falling asleep in mismatched pajamas to Victorian Farm on tv with this music playing in the background. Snoring and a farting dog would be mandatory.

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u/illit1 3h ago

Keeping romance alive in my marriage these days is surprising her with three loads

heheh yeahhhhhhhhhhhh

of folded laundry

oh. right.

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u/jarious 2h ago

Three loads of anything at my age is an incapacitating amount of exercise

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u/slackmarket 1h ago

I’m laughing out loud in the back room at work, and I am not really a laugh out loud from Reddit comments kinda guy.

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u/Voretex17 1h ago

Omg last night my husband did the laundry and AND folded socks. Idk if you know what it’s like to fold a shit ton of children’s socks but my god I’m sure that’s an activity on one of the seven levels of hell. I looked at him and said ā€œyou’re working for it tonight aren’t you?ā€ He winked at me and said ā€œready and waiting after I find this other spider man sock.ā€

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u/Squidproquo1130 2h ago

This killed me!!!

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u/funkdialout 3h ago

Laundry done and lunch, listen up lads, this is wisdom speaking. The less your wife has to view you as a dependent the more she will value you as a sexual partner.

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u/Fus_Roh_Dayumm 3h ago

Married 10 years. You couldn't pay me to crash a girl's trip. That's prime ME time, too.

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u/t00oldforthis 3h ago

Literally on the husband's side of a girls trip right now and I was thinking the same thing

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u/DigNitty 1h ago

Yeah. I love my GF but...

She reassures me she won't stay out later than 10pm or she'll be back from the trip by sunday. And I'm like "No no, stay as long as you want. PLEASE"

Time away from each other is absolutely necessary and doesn't mean you don't love them.

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u/bob_apathy 3h ago

My wife had to cancel one last month because of an illness and I was bummed for both of us!

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u/Chudpaladin 2h ago

The house without the wife is great for a week. After that my clingy ass gets a little sad.

The longest we’ve been separated was 2 months due to work. That was hard.

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u/Fus_Roh_Dayumm 2h ago

A little bit is medicine. A lot is poison. I get it

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u/Disastrous_Return83 3h ago edited 3h ago

I had to give you my first ever award just for the fine use of vernacular (courtin’). I agree with everything you said!

Edited to add - Laundry done and lunches packed? Swoon!

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u/Redebo 2h ago

Three loads?

My brother in Christ, my apologies as I was not familiar with your game.

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u/__ConesOfDunshire__ 3h ago

My wife's currently on a girls trip, and as much as she says how much she wishes I was there when we talk/text, she would not be happy if I just showed up out of nowhere.

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u/Mekito_Fox 2h ago

"I wish you were here" = I want to plan our own trip

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u/Ntroepy 2h ago

This reminds me of a coffee table book I bought years ago after my divorce called ā€œPorn for Womenā€ that featured a series of photos of good looking men doing household chores like laundry or vacuuming or asking them to go antiquing. It was quite hilarious. At least for the few minutes or so.

https://www.chroniclebooks.com/products/porn-for-women

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u/BigTool 2h ago

Keeping romance alive in my marriage these days is surprising her with three loads of folded laundry

Let me tell ya, we've been together for about 16 years now. I got a new job a few months ago. First big purchase was a surprise. A new dyson vacuum. It showed up and she got excited, and then I proceeded to happily do the entire house with it.... That was a good night

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u/brdesignguy 3h ago

"who the fuck is watching the kids..."

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u/yonkerbonk 3h ago

Surprise! points behind him

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u/vmachiel 2h ago

Better put that drink down because we’re going to a theme park tomorrow at 8!

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u/Consistent-Tap-4255 3h ago

And that’s when you got thrown off the cruise ship.

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u/Clericnl 2h ago

Haha I thought exactly this and it was the most upvoted comment.
This is not romantic… it feels controlling.
If your partner is on a trip with ONLY friends, take the hint.

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u/thenamziel 3h ago

Women LOVE being grabbed in public.

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u/SpongeJake 2h ago

A few of them did. One clearly did and then was shocked when she saw it was her bf. Little sus.

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u/Overtilted 1h ago

or, hear me out, it's staged.

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u/absolute_imperial 1h ago

Yeah I picked up on that too. The look on her face at 0:37 says it all.

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u/MichoRizo7698 3h ago

Thing is they are smiling during the initial touch then are shocked by who the person is. Who did you think it initially was that you allowed to be touched and smiling? Certainly not him!

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u/EireaKaze 2h ago

A lot of women who are grabbed frequently have an instinctual react to fawn in order to keep themselves safe. Placate don't escalate because he's probably bigger and stronger than you so escalation is more likely to get you hurt. Plus it can buy time to find an escape route.

Those initial reactions aren't happy/excited smiles, they're generally signs of discomfort and a form of fawning. They do it in hopes of diffusing the situation by making the person think they're happy and not trying to figure out how to gtfo.

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u/em-em-cee 3h ago

Someone comes up that close behind me unexpectedly and they're getting an elbow to whatever's in range.

Which my husband knows, so he'd never surprise me from that close.

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u/skepticalbob 3h ago

Had the same exact thought. She leaned into the embrace thinking it was someone else.

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u/the-other-marvin 3h ago

Let me give everyone watching this a piece of advice from personal experience: If your wife/girlfriend goes on a girl's trip and you show up and surprise her, she may not be happy to see you.

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u/Matt6453 3h ago

Yep, the only way she'd react like some of the women here is if she thought I'd died in an earthquake or something.

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u/g_cheeks 4h ago

Yeah cause you’re real and these influencers are filming for clout

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u/CannonFodder_G 3h ago

I don't like them kissing before she knows it's them. Too many of the reactions are frozen because you are assessing a threat. Yeah there's a happy ending, but that's a hell of an adrenaline spike when you think you're about to be assaulted or have to do some assaulting.

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u/FireflyRave 2h ago

Kind of ironic that the classiest guy is in the Waffle House.

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u/loreleisgoodbathroom 1h ago

She seems the most excited too!

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u/bscott9999 1h ago

Because she didn't feel like she was just assaulted by a stranger.

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u/adoradear 1h ago

They were my favourite too! He did it just right - slid into the booth where she could easily see him without actually touching her, and the absolute delight on both their faces was just perfection

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u/1-2-3RightMeow 37m ago

He was the only one who didn’t scare his lady as a starting moment

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u/Ivory-Robin 3h ago

Yes, this. Thank you for saying this. There are a lot of freeze and fawn reactions shown here, and honestly it’s sad.

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u/neonkiwi111 2h ago

Yes, exactly what I was thinking! I can see and almost feel the spike of fear while they stay perfectly still trying to think of how to get out safely.

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u/Just-Like-My-Opinion 50m ago

As a woman who has had similar happen to me (getting hugged from behind by a guy friend in a situation where I did not expect to see him). It's terrifying. I, too, froze up. Guys, don't do this shit!

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u/themanyfaceddogs 4h ago

Just me or was three just chilling with a random touching them so much?

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u/MrsMonkey_95 4h ago

Thatā€˜s what I thought first, but then I remembered itā€˜s actually fight-flight-freeze response. Media has done some damage ignoring ā€žfreezeā€œ for decades

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u/-nom-de-guerre- 4h ago

It’s fight, flight, freez, *and* fawn

everyone forgets fawn; and it is associated with severe childhood abuse and trauma

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u/LukewarmJortz 3h ago

The girls that were smiling until they realized who it was were defo fawning.

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u/Consistent_Smell_880 1h ago

it’s dodge, duck, dip, dive and dodge

Everyone forgets that if you can dodge a hammer, you can dodge a wrench

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u/_autumnwhimsy 3h ago

yeah 1000000% i don't think people realize that this is indeed TERRIFYING until you turn around and process the random man that is kissing you on the cheek is your partner who you don't think it gonna be there. im sure these women thought they were just getting assaulted on camera for a second.

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u/MyNameIsJakeBerenson 2h ago

And the people accusing them of smiling about someone else touching them don’t get it

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u/DigNitty 1h ago

And they're also out with friends. They see their friends not reacting and know that something is up.

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u/Ivory-Robin 3h ago

I was gonna say— these videos show a lot of classic Fawning responses. Reactions like this are taught to women as we grow up to keep us safe.

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u/Kalimah18 4h ago

Because staged.

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u/Plus-Professional-84 4h ago

The textures feel off… my gut says it’s AI

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u/AXEMANaustin 4h ago

I think some of them were ran through an ai filter.

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u/Aguita9x 4h ago

Yeah, a lot social media sites have started to automatically put the AI filter on videos supposedly to better the quality but it just makes it look worse most of the time.

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u/AXEMANaustin 3h ago

I think it's just to get people used to it.

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u/Annanymuss 3h ago

Sadly I belive is to make every video real or not to look AI so no one would truly recognize AI videos anymore

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u/CosmoKram3r 3h ago

I run my videos through a water filter. All my /r/HydroHomies love it.

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u/Time_Phone_1466 4h ago

Yeah my wife would come out swinging. I surprised her sort of like this once and she chose violence immediately and asked questions later.

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u/MrsMonkey_95 4h ago

Thatā€˜s ā€žfightā€œ and most in the video showcased ā€žflightā€œ. Number 3 pulled the ā€žfreezeā€œ out of her hat

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u/Wulfgrimm720 4h ago

She looked confused and shocked, not chill

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u/gulligaankan 4h ago

Freeze or flee, some just freeze

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u/Hansemannn 4h ago

Many freezes when I a bit of a panic like that

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u/Happy-Engineer 4h ago

What a funny prank to make your gf think some creep just came up and started touching her all over. You can see a few of them fully preparing for the worst day of their lives, in the seconds before they understood what was going on.

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u/Elephant_chair 4h ago

This was my take away too, I hate to feel jaded but watching the one girl have fear flashing across her face made it hard to enjoy this.

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u/BeanieBoyGaming 4h ago

You ever wonder if one of these is just a dude who was ghosted at some point and now they "reunited"

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u/Emotional-Novel-703 4h ago

To me, it seems like girls who went on trips by themselves and their boyfriends showed up as a surprise to make sure they weren’t cheating on them!

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u/28850 3h ago

The last one says "long distance relationship" and the reaction seemed legit to me. For the rest I totally agree.

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u/Firewolf06 2h ago

2 is also probably fine, a study abroad basically becomes a long distance relationship and isnt like a "girls trip" etc

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u/weordie 3h ago

Yeah, I found the birthday trip one a bit odd, dude let her have her trip with her mates. Thats not a reunion, its borderline controlling

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u/Hades_Shackles 23m ago

I just hate how the ones who don’t realise straight away are like ā€œif I stay very still, it will passā€. It’s quite horrifying, not cute or funny.

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u/Thusspeaks 19m ago

This is exactly what I noticed as well.

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u/Javen_Lab 1h ago

I have a feeling 100% of this is staged influencer content.

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u/K-Shrizzle 4h ago

Not to be jaded but I feel like her going on a birthday trip without her boyfriend was intentional, probably a girls trip, and him just showing up was kind of weird and controlling

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u/IThinkItsAverage 2h ago

My sister broke up with her boyfriend on the spot when he did this. He had many other… toxic traits… but when he showed up at her friends birthday party in another state as a ā€œsurpriseā€, she told him to go back home, pack up his shit, and be out of the house by the time she got back.

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u/coffee_and-cats 4h ago

Also, she was enjoying the embrace and flirting, then got a shock when she realised who it was!!

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u/belljs87 4h ago

Noticed that too

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u/hudson27 4h ago

Most women I know would have a mind to smack whoever kisses or grabbed her from behind, before they even clocked who the dummy was.

I guess the joke is watching women get uncomfortable, and then realizing it's their partner that made them uncomfortable.

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u/_kony2012 4h ago

Whoever took the video was in on the plan to surprise her, so I think these are bad assumptions. More likely she wanted her boyfriend there and at first he couldn't go.

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u/ChickyBoys 2h ago

Am I the only one that would be weirded out if my wife/gf surprised me when I was abroad on a trip?

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u/Javen_Lab 1h ago

It's all situational. Imagine you have to work overseas or go to school and your partners back at home. I would love a surprise visit from my loved one while I am gone. If everything is set in stone and were already married with a life, then yeah id say that it be weird with lots of questions.

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u/Own-Top-3793 4h ago

Is it just me or the 4th one was just comfortable? And then freaked out that it isn't someone else? šŸ˜†

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u/RegularOrMenthol 4h ago

Maybe it took longer for her brain to realize that their bf wasn’t supposed to be anywhere close to her location?

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u/PositiveDelicious599 3h ago

The moment of realization was very noticeable šŸ˜‚

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u/IRockIntoMordor 4h ago

"oh crap, Dave? My side dude is still in bathroom... how do I explain? Frick frick frick..." /s

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u/TheRealChesterSlick 10m ago

4th girl sus af

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u/C4rdninj4 54m ago

If I snuck up on my spouse like this, there's a good chance I'm getting an elbow to the ribs.

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u/APartyInMyPants 4h ago

Guys. Waffle Houses are for fighting, not foreplay.

Get this nonsense out of here.

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u/Ace-Cuddler 1h ago

Maybe it’s because one of the posts in my feed before this one was of Chris Isaak forcibly kissing Cameron Diaz at a VMA award show. But, it’s really sad that so many of these women froze up in response to a stranger invading her personal space and there are even comments from people who are upset that some of these women weren’t nearly assertive enough. But, unless you have been in that position (as I have) where a stranger unexpectedly touches you without warning, then you should not be so quick to judge what is or isn’t an appropriate response.

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u/RPS93 24m ago

I completely understand some of these women seeming to take this 'too easy' - especially seeing how I would wager it's mostly men in these comments. Not faulting them - it's just something they wouldn't know. Most of these women are freezing up out of fear and bewilderment. They literally don't know whether to fight, run, or shout. And when you're a woman having this done to you, you know it's 99% likely being done by a man who is bigger and stronger than you, and that's terrifying.

But that fourth girl straight up just looked like she was expecting the embrace of her side piece, and was shocked when she saw it was her main man.

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u/magentahead 4h ago

3rd chick..what was that

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u/Lt_Hatch 4h ago

Idk man 4th chick was WAY too comfortable with random man coming up and hugging her like that. 3rd chick just look hella uncomfortable

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u/MyDogsRetirementPlan 4h ago

4 looked like she thought he was someone else at first. I guess she was fine with it either way.

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u/gulligaankan 4h ago

Freeze, in panic mode some just shut down without moving or doing anything different. It’s a panic response

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u/InTheMorning_Nightss 4h ago

This. All the people here who are like, ā€œMan these women are too comfortable with a stranger just kissing them!ā€

When in reality it’s just sad. They freeze knowing they’re in a bad situation. You literally see her jump a bit on the initial kiss on her head and they freeze/panic knowing how scary it is.

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u/MrsMonkey_95 4h ago

Fight-flight-freeze. She froze

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u/Basemastuh_J 3h ago

Showing up randomly on her girls trip to hijack it will absolutely not go down well later in the ladies groupchat for her

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u/slkv8boi 4h ago

Second guy made me think of Heath Ledger in 10 Things I Hate About You

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u/Loikira 3h ago

Yeah being touched by surprise by someone you can't identify seems super weird, even terrifying, even if it turns out to be you bf.Ā  The last one is genuinely cute tho !

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u/vulpecula1919 2h ago

hey guys, dont touch up your partner if they dont know you're there/its you. it seems sweet, in reality its super terrifying becuase for those first few seconds before the realization its just geting SA'd by a stranger on the street.

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u/newiphon 2h ago

Why does this feel so uncanny/AI'd

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u/Charming-mid 1h ago

I think a lot of these people see that the person filming them is filming them and that they aren’t freaking out. They probably have a huge smile behind their phone screen so they can see ā€œthis is someone I knowā€

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u/AntiSebticDan 1h ago

Do you have to be a douche for this trend?

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u/tehbangere 4h ago

The second guy looks like Heath Ledger's twin

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u/charliekibo 3h ago

I’m not negating other people’s comments on the oddness of some of the women’s reactions, but it’s worth noting that not all people react defensively in these types of situations. Some people fight, some people ā€œflight,ā€ and some people freeze. I’m just taking a shot in the dark here, but they might be freezing out of panic. They don’t understand what’s going on and likely based on their friend’s reactions, it’s clearly not super concerning that they would need to react with more vigilance. I was in Iraq when the war kicked off and I was walking with my two lady friends when mortars started landing around us. Rather than react by running to shelter, they froze and started crying. I (also a woman), had to navigate them to shelter otherwise they probably would’ve still been standing there.

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u/makav55 55m ago

The 4th woman was happy with the hug then was suprised seeing his face.... Was she expecting someone else?

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u/Dismal-Antelope8299 4h ago

I see some comments saying ā€œsome of them didn’t mind being touched without knowing who it isā€. It’s strange being touched by a stranger (as they consider their partner in those first seconds). Your mind is taking some time to register what’s hapenning.

When I was visibly pregnant, a complete stranger touched my stomach and just kind of held her hand there. It was odd..very very odd. And I didn’t register it for a hot second before understanding what’s hapenning. Would I ~normally ~ allow a stranger to touch me? F no! But in the moment it ā€œjust happenedā€. You don’t know your reaction when you’re not given a ā€œheads upā€.

To the commenters making suggestive remarks as though perhaps these women were used to being touched in the absence of their boyfriends, shame on you for jumping to conclusions so quickly.

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u/SpunNumeroUno 4h ago

Some of these seem kinda sus, ngl. Lol

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u/Kalimah18 4h ago

Fucking hate any video with this song.

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u/CommercialAct5433 4h ago

That’s one way to greet your sister.

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u/Serteyf 3h ago

I had the weirdest face when watching this. A mix of awwww and being extremely uncomfortable

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u/dispatch_s2_when 1h ago

20 years ago I pulled this on my (now) wife. Had been together 5 years at that point, and I had left the country to do my master's. Flew back without saying anything and got a friend of hers to invite her out shopping, except I showed up instead. She definitely liked that :)

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u/enameledkoi 25m ago

A lot of judgment here about ā€œcheatingā€ or nonchalance about being hugged/kissed by strangers

It is a VERY normal response to freeze/fawn in this situation when being unexpectedly sexually assaulted by a stranger while your nervous system figures out how best to get you out of a situation safely.

And yes, when you expect your partner to be hundreds or thousands of miles away a surprise kiss or hug is an unwanted assault. Don’t do this. It’s not romantic. Show up with flowers and surprise her, just let her see you before you touch her. It’s not rocket science, it’s consideration.

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u/Deadlycup 14m ago

I'm coming up on ten years single if anyone wants to surprise me by hitting me with their car šŸ˜…

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u/Nowin 7m ago

The moments between getting touched by an unknown man and figuring out who it is reveal a lot about what women look like when they are mildly terrified for their lives but are also always on that edge of "so we will see if it's going to kill me I guess."

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u/sharpasahammer 1h ago

Fellas just a heads up, not a single woman on the planet will react positively if you stealth approach and wrap them up from behind.

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u/gekeoifbrleldhblfkhb 4h ago

Don't ever try this with me... would have killed him before noticing I know him.

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u/mondofreaks18 4h ago

The one with the woman on a birthday trip is clearly a dude who doesn't trust his significant other

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u/nDizzle89 3h ago

I really don't see any of the initial reactions as suspicious like others are saying.

Our brains process things a lot faster than we consciously realize. Any actual thought is after dozens of data points have been analyzed.

Someone's smell, how the touch you, small sounds they make, ways they move, how their skin/body feels, the rocking when holding, etc is stored in our memories.

To me, it looks more of the body/subconscious recognizing the men and feeling comfortable before the rational brain includes the info that it "can't" be them. Then the look to see who it is. Then pure joy.

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u/gobzillla 3h ago

I lost my wife a a couple months ago at 30. What I wouldn’t give to have her surprise me like this today.

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u/Active_Raspberry_603 42m ago

That 4th one was smiling when she felt a guy come up behind her then when she noticed it was her husband / bf she gasped like ā€œoh shit it’s him!ā€

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u/duk-er-us 39m ago

4th girl... who's gonna tell him?

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u/lastbeer 4h ago

I know one of the people in this video - first time that has ever happened to me and it feels weird. They used to be an F45 trainer in Los Angeles.

Also for those who are certain this is AI, at least one of these clips is definitely not.

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u/1568314 3h ago

Omg let her chew before sticking her tongue in her mouth

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u/Thunder_breslin 2h ago edited 1h ago

Third girl seemed that to take that way too easily

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u/Odd_Front_8275 1h ago

Or maybe she was just petrified. Most people will react that way in such a situation. They freeze. You may think you'll respond differently but it's very likely you will too.

PS: *too

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u/narfoleptix 1h ago

I had a dude start rubbing on my dick once on a bus.

Youre right. For like a good whole 4 to 5 seconds I was just shocked and didnt know what to do.

Then I kicked him in the face.

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u/Suitable-Peanut 4h ago

Who the hell wants their boyfriend showing up to a girl's trip in another country?

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u/Octavian_202 4h ago

We got a stage 5 clinger.

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u/Hyperfocus- 2h ago

There's a lot of "freeze" trauma responses happening here

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u/BBQWhiskeyVa 1h ago

I would never bother my wife when she was on a girls trip, I want some apart time too ya know. However I will never forget surprising her when we had been dating for about a year and a half and we hadn't seen each other in about 5 months. The look on her face lol I wish I had a picture!

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u/General_Thought8412 1h ago

I’m way too jumpy for that. If I were in the states then I would probably assume someone I know saw me and came over (but they would tap me in the shoulder not hug me) but in a different country where I know no one I know is there? I’d be jumping up so fast.

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u/954life 28m ago

dude, give the first lady a chance to chew and not choke to death.

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u/AvocadoFit3858 11m ago

I'm tired of highly photogenic happy people, where my uggo's at?

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u/ebaugh44 1h ago

1 did not look too happy.

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u/BleDStream 1h ago

4 looked a little too happy before she even knew.

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u/HalfwayHeroic 1h ago

She seemed like she was 100% expecting someone else lmao

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u/FrankaGrimes 1h ago

Yeah...the biggest takeaway for me was seeing the look of fight or flight (or freeze) momentarily in the women's eyes when they were initially touched.

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u/The_Ruhi 4h ago

The comments are exactly what you'd think they would be, in the bad way.

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u/Pikepe 2h ago

All staged for TikTok

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u/minmidmax 4h ago

You need to copy a content trend because you're incapable of coming up with original ideas so you get your boyfriend, or some paid goon, to help you in your delusion that this is the path to fame and success.

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u/scoobysam 4h ago

Honestly any time I see a video with this corny ass overplayed music it makes me do the opposite of smile...

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u/ime1em 4h ago

First one she's has food in her mouth tho lol

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u/FLXLGHT 3h ago

second one looks a bit like a young heath ledger, right ?

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u/jenbenfoo 3h ago

So many of these women were way too calm with someone coming up from behind and touching/kissing them....someone tries that on me and imma throw hands 🤣 I'm way too easily startled for this kinda thing lol

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u/MySignIsToaster 3h ago

0:32 totally expected somebody else

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u/ThatMiyu 3h ago

I would have turn real quick and be like wtf!!!

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u/positiveNRG_247 3h ago

I don't know if this is a "made me smile" kind of post.Ā 

A former bf snuck up behind me and started to touch me, and I was instantly ready to start swinging, before I realized it was him and he caught my arm.Ā 

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u/noeagle77 2h ago

Dude if I snuck up on my girl while she was on a trip and started kissing her without her knowing it was me, I’d probably end up with a fork in my eye or something.

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u/Destinater 1h ago

When my sister went to college far from home, her friends decided to take her out for her birthday and said they'd hire a stripper, she didn't know that her friends contacted her boyfriend so he flew over there and appeared when she was expecting the stripper, she was absolutely shocked and happy when she saw him.

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u/Tyenkrovy 33m ago

That last one has got me trying not to cry

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u/MtOlympus_Actual 4h ago

At least two of them were totally okay with some stranger moving in on them.

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u/fiori_4u 4h ago

Women freezing look totally okay to you?

Oh brother

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u/Dhaubbu 4h ago

Not a big fan of the versions of these where the guy makes the girl think they're being sexually assaulted for a moment, but thats just me.

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u/BellaFrequency 4h ago

1st couple - why did he wait until she took a huge bite? Now she’s gotta chew and kiss.

2nd couple - look oddly alike. Too much alike.

3rd couple - I’m so worried about her tolerance for being touched by strangers. I think it happens to her so often that she just freezes, but you can see the annoyance/discomfort on her face.

4th couple - I think she expected that it was someone she knew hugging her because her friend was filming and not alarmed, so she was calm as well.

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u/skilas 1h ago

I was hoping one of the guys would get slapped when they started kissing their girl before announcing it was them. Some of these were kinda creepy. Last guy was cool.

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u/Woden888 48m ago

Ooooof… that fourth guy should start asking to see her phone šŸ˜‚

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u/minus15t2 2h ago

Some of these women do not look even remotely off put or surprised by someone coming up from behind them and touching them...

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u/Busy-Bumblebee5556 1h ago

All of them were with other people and may have had measured reactions based on their friend’s reactions. If all her friends were grinning it would have been a clue not to be too weirded out.

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u/twotall88 4h ago

#3 was oddly chill to have thought some random person was kissing all over her.

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u/Simpy158 3h ago

This happened to our girls trip. The boyfriend showed up and it was creepy as hell. It was only for a week and they couldn’t live without each other for that long? 🤮

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u/everyseasonidaho 4h ago

My wife and I were living in two different states because I was currently working in a different state. It was for about 4 months. When I came to pick her up and we finally saw each other. It was one of the best feelings seeing her run out towards me.

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u/forgotten-ent 4h ago

0:33 Why was she happy first at getting hugged then surprised second at seeing her partner?

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u/Turak64 4h ago

Invisible cameraman strikes again

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u/erik_wilder 3h ago

If I had snuck up on my ex in a public place and tried to kiss her without her knowing I was there, I'd be missing teeth, I guarantee it.

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u/40cappo40 3h ago

I WOULDN'T KNOW OP. THANKS

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u/armaespina 2h ago

The feeling of the last one, basically seeing her launching herself at him is awesome

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u/celebral_x 1h ago

ITT: Lonely people, super duper lonely people.

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u/Naschka 1h ago

First girl she shrugs away from an unknown person getting close, sees him and is happy.
Second girl is realy going away first, and happy when she knows.
Third girl looks like the fuck for a moment but doesnt run from a random persons kiss on her head, still fine imo.
Fourth girl gets hugged by someone she has no idea who it is and seems quiet fine with it... while on a trip where she believes her boyfriend is not as her shock shows once she realises... just saying but that is so damn sus.
Fifth girl again does fine, she doesnt shrek away but since some distance is kept just the hand is a bit invasive but fine.
Sixt girl didn't have much of a choice to show it but she seems surprised as heck and shows a lot of reaction to him being there.

1 of these is not like the other, 1 of these may have had a holiday boyfriend.

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u/ChampionshipBulky66 58m ago

Dude didn’t let the poor woman chew her food 😭😭😭

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u/BethyW 29m ago

I'm so happy my husband knows me all too well. We started as an intl relationship and it he touched me without me knowkng it was him he would get smacked in the face and I would have ran as fast as I could without looking back

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u/Unsolicited_Food 4h ago

Bro that's kinda creepy I'f they didn't know them

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u/ClacksInTheSky 3h ago

All these eyes wholesome except the blonde in the middle was a bit too handsy before she realised. Pretty much all the others were like "who the fuck is....OMG!"

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u/StillSkyler 3h ago

Anyone else find it weird that most of them didn’t react in a negative way when someone starts touching up on them and they don’t know it’s the S.O.?

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u/DragonJouster 2h ago

A lot of people are saying some of them look "too comfortable" but a lot of women freeze or feel the need to placate to protect themselves when stuff like this happens. Not everyone is going to throw out a punch to the face.

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u/Just-Like-My-Opinion 57m ago

Guys, please don't do this. It's incredibly creepy to think you're being touched by a stranger. Why would you think that making your partner feel massively creeped out thinking they're being assaulted by a stranger, as a surprise would be a good thing?

Jesus christ. Just tap her on the shoulder, or put the flowers into her peripheral vision, ffs!?

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u/CommercialAd3014 2h ago

Am I the only one that thinks the blonde one was too comfortable being hugged before even noticing it was her bf?????

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u/Lilacdangerous 3h ago

What was up with 3 just letting strangers kiss on her without question. Only 2 was like wtf

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u/cheesesteakconundrum 2h ago

heath ledger on the second one omg

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u/TheBigChungaBunga 3h ago

Last Blonde girl was DOWN for Whoever it was! Lol BF was even like "YO, WTF??" Lol

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u/Mr_Meeseeks86 4h ago

I’m sooo tired of this song being slapped on EVERY ā€œheartfeltā€ video.

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u/SullySausageTown 3h ago

Some of these were way too comfortable before realising it was their bf lmao

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u/Slothstralia 3h ago

Lot of those girls acting shocked to see their partner but not shocked to be grabbed from behind by a man.

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u/yangthesin 4h ago

Caught my single ass smiling

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u/Chemical-Chard-8798 3h ago

I'm not saying there's trust issues, but none of those girls are ugly.

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u/Nelsqnwithacue 3h ago

Blonde in the wavy dress was dtf with whoever was attached to those arms.

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u/batiwa 2h ago

Jarvis, more alcohol please.